The only way to find the love in your heart is to let it out, to begin loving someone, to love, to begin loving. Once you have found a way to open your heart and let love flow through you, many opportunities for love will find you
Love attracts love. When you become a being filled with love, then loving experiences will come your way from unexpected places. When a problem or person is approached with love, things are resolved more quickly, understandings are reached. There is a clear pure path adorned with flowers for you to walk on and all the birds are singing, music is playing, and love is shining around you like the sun. It very often can feel like an altered universe when love is the way of communicating and connecting.
When you are approaching others with love, they know before they can know with their physical senses. They know with their spiritual senses that love is approaching, and those senses turn on and become tuned to the energy of love. All this happens above the conscious level so that it is there, but not apparent to either person on a conscious level.
There appears to be no difference to anyone, but everything is different. Everything is taking place on a higher realm, in a loving way that filters down into physical consciousness in a wonderful pleasant, fulfilling, complete and satisfying connection. There is no substitute for this, and it can only happen voluntarily, with love and connection as the primary objective.
You can practice this loving connection with everyone you come in contact with, including your loved ones. Simply open your heart and send love out. Generate heat in your heart as you send loving thoughts out into the universe. Do this every time you meet someone, every time you think of someone, every time you breathe.
Send love skyward, to the Great Beyond, to the end of the universe and it will arrive in your own heart.