Deborah Rae Hall

Deborah Rae Hall

Welcome conflict, it is your teacher. 

Welcome love, it is your answer.

Ask Agnes

What is life? Why am I here? What is my purpose?  These are questions that Agnes loves to hear. Agnes is a group of Star Beings whose chosen purpose is to help humans find the path of love.  Below are some questions they have answered from curious people just like you.  Please feel free to ask a question of your own by filling out the form below. One question will be chosen each week and will be posted here and on Facebook and Instagram.  No names will be used in the posts.

Dear Agnes,

Can you help me deal with my mother?  Sometimes she treats me as the fool like she does with many others.  Her sarcasm and ridicule are difficult to live with. What can I do so that I’m not so angry at her?

Signed, I used to love her

Dear Love her,

She is your mother.  She has been in charge of you for many years, all your life.  She lives in grief, many times in her life there have been troubles.  She is a woman of great strength and courage, but she is full of sorrow.  Very full.  Sometimes she cannot sleep, and she cries for her lost loves.  These seem large to her.  Her gratitude is not always on her mind.

You are able to understand her sorrow and yet you take offence to it.  Do not carry her sorrow with you.  Many times in your life you have taken on her sorrow as yours.  Do not.  This is a time for great strength and humbleness.  Let your gratitude carry you through this.  Be grateful for your mother despite her faults.  Do not engage in her defensiveness.  She sees you; she loves you.  She is there for you.  Be grateful for that.

Dear Agnes,

What is my purpose is life. I feel so lost. I don’t know what to do.

Signed, Lost in Life

Dear Life,

You are to give and receive love in the best way possible. To hold other hearts in your hand and nurture them and allow them room to grow. You are to be a part of the growth, to send others on their journey, to create a way for others to make their journey, to begin their quest. You are in the precious place of giving, of beginning. You are to help others around you, those you come in contact with, those you meet and those who only know of you.

To live a life based on love is the most purposeful, honest, true and beautiful thing you can do with your life. A life is a gift, a special present from the Creator, and to use it in hatred or pain, in violence or shame is to dishonor the gift. Each life is filled with some pain, only to rise above it, some violence, only to learn that love is the greater power, some hatred, only to see the true beauty of living together in love.
When you choose to live with love as your purpose, your ally, your strength, giving becomes easy, feeling is the road to truth, and joy and happiness become your constant companions.

It is time for all to experience the true love and joy given to us from the Creator. Open your heart from the inside. Let the door swing wide and feel the freedom of love, the letting go, the serious joy of life that is your legacy, your true inheritance. Feel at once how it is to live in love and accept this as yours, holding to it, experiencing the joy and pureness of the moment. You are a child of love. You will know it when it arrives.

Dear Agnes.

I am so sad, my dearest friend passed away last month, and I don’t know how to deal with the sorrow and pain I am feeling. I can’t seem to concentrate on anything and feel so much grief. Can you help me?

Signed, Feeling the pain

Dear Feeling,

The truth about death is something you already know. It is not the end, even though it is an end to the body, the spirit flies on to the next space, the next challenge, the next wind.
The body has a certain memory, a certain cellular function that ceases when the spirit is no longer there to fuel it. But the spirit carries the true memory, the memory of love and connection to other spirits. This is with the spirit always and forever.

When the body dies, people are sad because they miss the person’s spirit. They are afraid they will never see this person again. But what they forget is that death is only a temporary separation. All things die, and when you die, you will be reunited with those spirits you are connected to.

Life is a temporary separation from the many, many spirits you are connected to that are not alive. But life also is a temporary connection to the spirits you are here with. The spiritual truth is that you are connected to everyone and everything. When you live, this concept is difficult, perhaps glimpses of this truth can be seen, but separation is the way of seeing most of the time.

It’s important to learn not to worry, to keep your worries from overpowering the love you have inside and turning it into fear. The love you hold inside can turn into fear if you hold it too tightly, thinking it belongs to you when, in truth, love belongs to no one. It moves through us, and we experience it, it moves us, we feel our hearts melt and expand, but it does not belong to us. It belongs through us.

This is true of the people in our lives as well. None of them belong to us. They may feel like a part of us and hold a piece of our heart, but they are not ours. And when a person we love is called to leave us, through death or in life, it is important to send them with love, to know your love will accompany them whether they leave in anger or in love.

Your love must be allowed to follow, to leave your heart and go with them or that same love will harden and dry up if you try to keep it. It was not meant to sit in your heart waiting. That is how love may turn into fear. Check your heart now and see if there is any love you may be holding back, holding on to. Look deep and see if you have any long-held sorrow or pain. This, too, is love that is kept.

Let your heart find its old worn-out love, the old, hardened cakes of love dried out and laying forgotten in the corners of your heart. They may have turned to pain or sorrow or fear, but it is not too late to reclaim them and allow the great love of Spirit to wash over them and turn them into the healing water of forgiveness, understanding and letting go.

Dear Agnes,

There is a war going on in Palestine and Israel. The Palestinians are unable to fight back and there is widespread bombings. What about the Palestinians? How can we help them?

Signed Helpless in America

Dear America,

There is no winner in a war. The sadness of a war is that many are killed, many are hurt both physically and mentally, buildings are destroyed and families are broken. There is no winner in a war.  You asked about the Palestinians. This is the city where Jesus was born. This is where the beginnings of the story of Christianity and Judaism took place. Why is there war in such a holy place?

The answers are obvious, but they are true. Humankind has turned away from the idea of love that Jesus spoke about. Humans have focused on the power and greed that corrupt many and cause wars, just and unjust. War is about power. Love is about connection and family. War is about having material things, love is about creating more love. War is about forcing others to do your will. Love is about understanding what others want and need.

When humans turn away from love, war is what they find. There is no other option but to love. When you are full of love, there is enough love and understanding for everyone. When you are full of anger, there is only conflict for everyone. You are the key to love. You are the reason for love. To love fully, there can be no conflict in your own heart. You must find the conflict in your heart and let it go. This is your war, your truth. When your conflict is resolved and is no more, then you may help others with their conflicts. When all of humankind has let go of the conflict in their own hearts, there will be no more war.

Dear Agnes,

How do you keep loving through a loss? I have lost all my belongings and my place to live. There is plenty to be grateful for, my family is safe, but I feel broken and charred like my house. My belongings reminded me of my life story, they were meaningful and now I have nothing. In one way, I feel free but also so sad.

Feeling charred and broken

Dear Feeling,

There is always sadness around loss. It doesn’t matter if you lost a game, a belonging, or a living being. There is always sadness. The thing to remember is that love is eternal and can never be lost. Whatever love you lavished on your material goods or your living friends, that love is still with you.

Love is something you can give away and yet still keep. This love is your most precious gift to others and to yourself. When you create love in your heart, it lasts forever. So, when you are sad and feeling broken, remember this love and it will revive you. Remember the love you gave to the people and things around you. It is still there in your heart.

Your heart remembers the love which is why you are sorrowful. You hold on to the love in your heart when you lose people or things. Let that love out. Let your self love new things. Let your self find new meaning. You are eternal and things are not. When you realize that you will be more flexible in your response to losing material things. Grieve for what you have lost but continue to love. This is the way to a loving heart.

Dear Agnes, How do I forgive myself?

Signed, Feeling Down

Dear Feeling Down,

This is a great question. The ability to understand what you have done and know the consequences to the other person (or to yourself) is the sign of an intelligent being. If you, for instance, hurt someone and did not feel anything wrong in that, there is something broken. This is what happens to people who have been abused and abandoned, they lose the ability to understand what they have done.

Animals are set apart from humans because they do not empathize or understand they may have done something wrong according to our standards and values. But humans are not guided by animal instincts, for the most part, and are able to empathize and understand from a young age. This can be lost if the child is not cherished.  This is a loss to humanity as well as to the family and individual.

Forgiveness is something you can do on your own, without help, without others. It is a very personal and deep discussion with your self. When forgiving your self, it is important to see the good in your self as well as the bad. See your self with the eyes of Creator and know that you are a very important and imperfect human. You are bound to make mistakes because of this. Human emotions are very sensitive and powerful and it takes time and effort to learn how to understand and work with them.

If you have not put in the time and effort to understand your emotions, then you will have episodes where you will need forgiveness. This is another learning point for you. Forgiving your self involves seeing the episode truthfully with your part highlighted. Then you must understand the deep reasons for what you did. Does it reach back to how a past loved one treated you, whether it be parents, sibling or friend. Does it have anything to do with how you look at your self and others.

Have you accepted your self and your limits? Have you given your self the love that it yearns for? Have you partnered with Creator in love? Have you been forgiving of others? These questions must be answered before you can forgive your self. It is a wonderful thing to do, and the main thing that must be done in order to love your self. The sooner you start looking at it, the sooner you will be free. Creator can help with this. Simply ask for help and there will be love in your heart waiting for you.

Dear Agnes, How can I be understanding when someone in charge is hurting the earth. How can I stop them without being angry and sad. I’m so angry.

Dear Angry,

To overcome someone who is hurting the earth or others on earth, there is only one thing to do. Sing. Yes, sing. The singing is great energy and with enough people singing there will be a great amount of energy released towards the earth that will help it and the people who live on it. Sing with your whole heart and sing with many people. Those who sing will learn to sing with love and the energy of that love will stop the one who is hurting the earth.

This sounds unrealistic, but many people singing will create love, will create energy and this will overcome the people without awareness. It will slow them down and stop them. They have no energy that is stronger than singing with love. They will be afraid of this and it will stop them. You are a good singer as are many. Let your love bubble up from your heart and move into the world with song. It is difficult to be angry when you are singing. And it is difficult to stop someone from singing.

Try this simple technique and let love guide you in all things. Love is the key, love is the way, love is the song.

Dear Agnes, What can I do about a cruel and selfish leader who is doing things that do not come from a place of love. In fact, he is hurting people all around the world.

Signed, Confused and angry.

Dear Confused,

The reason you are confused is because you are responding to this person’s cruelty with fear and negativity. Perhaps you are worried about what will happen to yourself and others because of this tyrant. It is only natural to feel this way. However, we challenge you to change your fear to love and see what happens. When fear is in charge, fearful things happen. When fear takes the lead, only negative things can happen.

When you change your fear to love, three things become true. You are no longer living in fear. You now can send love to these negative events and impact the outcome with your love. You can connect with others who are living in love. This will make your community strong and keep your heart for love.

Hate and fear destroy the connections you have with others for you cannot hold hate for one person and not use it on another. Hate is indiscriminate and it multiplies quickly. When part of your heart is given to hate, the rest is infected, and the love dissipates. When you love, the same process begins. When part of your heart is given to love, the rest is connected and hate dissipates. There is no choice except between love and fear. It is your job to choose which one you will live with regardless of who else is living in the world.

Dear Agnes, How can I manifest change in my life?

Signed, Wanting more

Dear Wanting,

When you are wanting to manifest something in your life such as a job or love or health, it is important to understand the process. When you want something, you are creating a path for it to come into your life. To create the path, you must know the way to the path. And to know the way to the path it helps to have love in your heart.

The love in your heart is the key to manifesting what you need and want. Love will bring you to your heart’s desire, only you must love your way there. This means you need to love your body, love your self, love your life. Need and want often come from a sense of lack, so while it is important to identify what you need and want, it is also imperative that you love those needs and wants.
You must love your way to health, love your way to your career, love your way to friends and lovers. This is the missing ingredient in most cases. When you want something, you can become desperate and needy, thinking only of the lack. This pushes your needs and wants away. You must love your needs and wants, think of them in the most glowing terms and be grateful for the opportunity to pursue them. This is the way to manifesting your dreams and desires, your needs and your wants.

Give your self some love, think your thoughts with love, choose your words and actions with love. Use love in every aspect of your life and you will change your vibration. When you change your vibration, you will attract the things you love into your life. If you love nature, you will find your self in nature more often. If you love a certain person, you will find opportunities to be around that person. If you love health, you will find opportunities to become healthy.

You are the avenue that love travels. You are the way to love. When you work with love to become and to manifest, you will be successful. This is the way to love, this is the way to a full and complete life. This is how you become.

Dear Agnes, My friend has a serious genetic disease and is struggling with it. Do you have any encouraging words of hope and healing that you can share with him.

Signed, Hopeful in Seattle

Dear Hopeful,

When a person has a disease, there is emotion behind it. There is often a feeling that the body is betraying you. But this is not true. The body is only communicating with you. The body is telling you that something is not in alignment with your true self. This is an important distinction. When the body is communicating with you, you must listen. You can’t ignore it for long because the body can make you pay attention.

Sometimes the messages are simple, and you understand immediately. You fall down and your body hurts. But emotional pain is deeper and can show up many months or years after the initial event. This is because when the event occurred, your body was not able to process the pain so it stored it for as long as it could. Now the pain wants your attention.

When your body is in pain, sit quietly and listen to your body. Let your thoughts wander where they will. Send your love to the pain, ask for it to communicate to you what is happening. Ask for the body to let you know what you can do to relieve the pain. Ask your body for the reasons for pain. Ask your body to release the pain.

Spend time doing this every day. Listen to your body and get to know your body as much as you can. Feel the love you have for your body and send it to the pain. Send love to your self, to your body, to the events that made you the way you are.
Your body needs your love. Do not hate the pain, or the disability, or your body. Send love to it all. Send the love you have stored along with this pain. Feel the love in your heart and let the fear go. You are the only one who can do this for your body. Let this love grow and become a love for all things. Let your love listen and become.

Dear Agnes, There is so much unrest in the world, and it frightens me. There are terrible leaders, wars, climate change, and people seem so angry. Things are changing so fast. What is happening?

Signed, Lost and worried

Dear Lost,

It is time for the great awakening and to be awakened one must be asleep. Most of the humans on earth are sleepwalking through their lives eating, working, gaming, drinking, sporting, etc. They are not aware of the higher vibrations and are not interested in learning about it. They are stuck in violence, sickness, anger and pain. To wake them up is difficult.

It is not something to be afraid of; it is something to look forward to as the new vibrations are available to heal you. There will be difficult times but there will also be enlightenment and growth and love, so much love. This is the exciting part of this journey. You will be free from pain and suffering and love will take its rightful place in your heart and in your society. Love conquers all and you will be a part of it.

There is no reason to worry. You will finally be able to understand how love lives and moves in the world. You will be a part of it, and it will be a part of you. Do not worry. You are safe in the arms of the Creator, and you will never truly die. This is our promise to you. There are many ways to the promised land, and this is but one of them.

You are doing well, you are living well, there is love in your heart and you share your love. What else is there? You will be fine. You will be loved. You will be alive. Be grateful you live in such an exciting time. It is your choice to be here, and it is your choice to stay here. Choose the way of love.

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