Welcome conflict, it is your teacher.
Welcome love, it is your answer.
Ask Agnes
What is life? Why am I here? What is my purpose? These are questions that Agnes loves to hear. Agnes is a group of Star Beings whose chosen purpose is to help humans find the path of love. Below are some questions they have answered from curious people just like you. Please feel free to ask a question of your own by filling out the form below. One question will be chosen each week and will be posted here and on Facebook and Instagram. No names will be used in the posts.
Dear Agnes, Can you help me deal with my mother?
Dear Agnes,
Can you help me deal with my mother? Sometimes she treats me as the fool like she does with many others. Her sarcasm and ridicule are difficult to live with. What can I do so that I’m not so angry at her?
Signed, I used to love her
Dear Love her,
She is your mother. She has been in charge of you for many years, all your life. She lives in grief, many times in her life there have been troubles. She is a woman of great strength and courage, but she is full of sorrow. Very full. Sometimes she cannot sleep, and she cries for her lost loves. These seem large to her. Her gratitude is not always on her mind.
You are able to understand her sorrow and yet you take offence to it. Do not carry her sorrow with you. Many times in your life you have taken on her sorrow as yours. Do not. This is a time for great strength and humbleness. Let your gratitude carry you through this. Be grateful for your mother despite her faults. Do not engage in her defensiveness. She sees you; she loves you. She is there for you. Be grateful for that.
Dear Agnes, What is my purpose in life?
Dear Agnes,
What is my purpose is life. I feel so lost. I don’t know what to do.
Signed, Lost in Life
Dear Life,
You are to give and receive love in the best way possible. To hold other hearts in your hand and nurture them and allow them room to grow. You are to be a part of the growth, to send others on their journey, to create a way for others to make their journey, to begin their quest. You are in the precious place of giving, of beginning. You are to help others around you, those you come in contact with, those you meet and those who only know of you.
To live a life based on love is the most purposeful, honest, true and beautiful thing you can do with your life. A life is a gift, a special present from the Creator, and to use it in hatred or pain, in violence or shame is to dishonor the gift. Each life is filled with some pain, only to rise above it, some violence, only to learn that love is the greater power, some hatred, only to see the true beauty of living together in love.
When you choose to live with love as your purpose, your ally, your strength, giving becomes easy, feeling is the road to truth, and joy and happiness become your constant companions.
It is time for all to experience the true love and joy given to us from the Creator. Open your heart from the inside. Let the door swing wide and feel the freedom of love, the letting go, the serious joy of life that is your legacy, your true inheritance. Feel at once how it is to live in love and accept this as yours, holding to it, experiencing the joy and pureness of the moment. You are a child of love. You will know it when it arrives.
Dear Agnes, I am so sad. My dearest friend passed away last month.
Dear Agnes.
I am so sad, my dearest friend passed away last month, and I don’t know how to deal with the sorrow and pain I am feeling. I can’t seem to concentrate on anything and feel so much grief. Can you help me?
Signed, Feeling the pain
Dear Feeling,
The truth about death is something you already know. It is not the end, even though it is an end to the body, the spirit flies on to the next space, the next challenge, the next wind.
The body has a certain memory, a certain cellular function that ceases when the spirit is no longer there to fuel it. But the spirit carries the true memory, the memory of love and connection to other spirits. This is with the spirit always and forever.
When the body dies, people are sad because they miss the person’s spirit. They are afraid they will never see this person again. But what they forget is that death is only a temporary separation. All things die, and when you die, you will be reunited with those spirits you are connected to.
Life is a temporary separation from the many, many spirits you are connected to that are not alive. But life also is a temporary connection to the spirits you are here with. The spiritual truth is that you are connected to everyone and everything. When you live, this concept is difficult, perhaps glimpses of this truth can be seen, but separation is the way of seeing most of the time.
It’s important to learn not to worry, to keep your worries from overpowering the love you have inside and turning it into fear. The love you hold inside can turn into fear if you hold it too tightly, thinking it belongs to you when, in truth, love belongs to no one. It moves through us, and we experience it, it moves us, we feel our hearts melt and expand, but it does not belong to us. It belongs through us.
This is true of the people in our lives as well. None of them belong to us. They may feel like a part of us and hold a piece of our heart, but they are not ours. And when a person we love is called to leave us, through death or in life, it is important to send them with love, to know your love will accompany them whether they leave in anger or in love.
Your love must be allowed to follow, to leave your heart and go with them or that same love will harden and dry up if you try to keep it. It was not meant to sit in your heart waiting. That is how love may turn into fear. Check your heart now and see if there is any love you may be holding back, holding on to. Look deep and see if you have any long-held sorrow or pain. This, too, is love that is kept.
Let your heart find its old worn-out love, the old, hardened cakes of love dried out and laying forgotten in the corners of your heart. They may have turned to pain or sorrow or fear, but it is not too late to reclaim them and allow the great love of Spirit to wash over them and turn them into the healing water of forgiveness, understanding and letting go.
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